Disaster Day 13

Day 13

This is probably the happiest day of all the days.
Although I miss our lazy Sunday mornings.
our Sunday morning songs.
our Sunday late late lunch.
our Sunday drives
our Sunday starbucks.
our Sunday.

Spent most of the day with my sisters.
Sunday well spent. :)

Thought of a game both for us.
tiny little couple quiz.
i knew you would love it.
you loved that game.
can't deny i'am a genius.

we met.
you wore the shirt i gave you.
looks good on you.
really good.
It wasn't complicated at all last night.
Everything was, just nice.
Oh your smile. I miss it. I really do, and our silly inside jokes.

I miss us just sitting at the bench, giggling away.
that simple happiness with you. That is more than enough to make me happy.


I was basically squeezing the life out of you before.
I apologize for that.
Something just clicked in me, and i thought. this is nice.
giving each other space.

I mean i don't need to rush back from work all stressed up just to meet you.
and you can spend your time with your friends.
This is nice. I wonder why do we rush so much before this?
are we too excited to meet each other?
are we nothing thinking straight?

but, that wall you put up, that freaking wall to your heart.
I promise i will kick it down one day, like i did before.
It is so obvious that we know each other so well.
I was right when i say "you are mine and I am yours. Always"

Please remember the 5 things you love about me. and the 5 things i love about you.
Was it the reason we fell in love at the first place?

why can't we fall in love again?

I still miss us holing hands and you kissing my hand.
We are a team. both of us inseparable. I need my partner back. :(

so please.

Come back to me.

I miss you 杰

Disaster Day 12

Day 12

My day wasn't as good.
Yes we texted and chat.
But you were cold.
as if you don't wanna open up to me.
everything is back to square one.

you don't need to be afraid. It is so obvious that I want to change this.
this relationship pattern.
I am working hard on it.
I know you will see it one day.
You will see how much I want to get you back.
It sucks when I am stuck in here, and your world keeps turning.

Last night was awesome.
:)

I finally realised how it feels to meet new people.
for a second, i thought. maybe, just maybe i can forget about this.
maybe i can let this go.

just move on, if this is want you want.
but every time. you pulled me back.
and the thought of losing you forever swallows me.

Honestly, I am starting to feel afraid for myself.
am i going to hurt myself more?
should i give up?

The only thing i am holding onto now, is that smile of yours and memories of us.
come back to me.

I miss you 杰

Disaster Day 11

Day 11.

Yesterday was the only day that not one single tear fell from my eyes.
Feeling good. Doing good? I hope so.

Yesterday was, nice, I can say peaceful.
like the aftermath of tsunami.
peaceful and ruined beautifully in it's own way.

Had heart to heart conversations with people around me.
I am trying to learn and absorb so much.

Yes I will be a better women, girlfriend, partner, daughter, worker, wife, mother, friend.
updated each post with pictures and memories of us.

:)

well at least if we didn't work out, i'll still have these to remember.
at least they are all i really have to hang on to.

Memories.

It's going to be 2 weeks soon, yet i still can remember the pain like it was yesterday.
I don't feel it as much anymore now.

but it's still there.
yes it's there.

You sang yesterday night. After so long
I've taken so many things for granted.
I was so used to it that I never really show appreciation.
sorry.
I love it when you sing. Your voice is the serenade of my soul.

just come back and take me away again.

I love you 杰

Disaster Day 10

Day 10

What are we?
The first thing that pops up in my mind.

Was I dreaming?
spend the day in office doing absolutely nothing beneficial. unproductive day.
not having a car suck shit!
god.

However, I did get my confirmation, so that's good news :)

Shared the news with you. You were still, you.
well, i guess it's really hard for you to let it go.

We were texting all day, I love that, makes me really happy.
It does.
Boy, I wish you know how much of an impact you have on me.
You make me so happy by just one smile of yours.
See I have, I will always love that sun shine smile of yours.

It's over with him. I told you.
Deep down, you know. You trusted me.

Last night was. Magical and miracle. wonderful like the fireworks before 4th of July.
I hope you felt what i feel.
Feeling so strong, lasted for so long.
I won't forget the day we 1st met.
You and your smile. :)
I really. really hope you felt it.

I believe deep down that tar covered heart, there's till some humanity and feelings left.
I trust you because you always say "I know what I am doing."


I am confused by so many things. but.

I am not going to cry for anything and anyone anymore.
My mom thought me to be a survivor, not some silly girl crying over boys.
I am fighting and doing this for us, because i still love you, so much. so deep. so dearly.
I am changing to be a better person for us because I see there's still hope.
I will do all I can to maintain this relationship because I love you.

until one day. when i see, there's nothing left to fight for, i guess i'll stop.
Maybe someone better out there is waiting for the new me. and that time, i swear i will never make the same mistake twice. and that time, that someone will not let me go this easily.


I cannot promise you how long will this last. But i can promise you, as long as i love you, i will fight.

come back soon.

 I miss you 杰

Disaster Day 9

Day 9

Woke up to your text from last night.
Saying that you lost the bet.

You slept late watching football, I knew you couldn't wake up to work.
Purposely want you to sleep more.
I couldn't sleep well too. Thinking of last night.

The exhibition at KLCC was hectic.
I just couldn't stop thinking about that night.
The good part of it.
made me missed you more.

I wonder what are we right now?
It's not right to push you for answers, i am not going to do that anyway.
I'll just let things fall into places on their own.

It has been too long since we last talked on the phone before bed.
It was nice in a way.
and sad too.

you were. Cold.
so cold that i wonder, when can i ever, what can i ever, how can i ever really melt you heart?
am i not good enough?

I cannot undo what I've done, but I promise you I am learning so much and I would never do that anymore.

But. you are a paranoid ass hole, stubborn, having trust issues. I really wonder, who hurt you this much and made you, you.
What did they do to you.



All you thought about last night, all day were things that I've done that you weren't happy about. What about the things that you did, that hurt me so much, so deep? Think about it.  


  I love you 杰

Disaster Day 8

Day 8

I was still crying when they asked about us.

You were still the same.

But I'm glad that we met and had nice and comfortable conversation.  Until I mentioned him.

I guess I prefer to be honest to you rather than lying and hiding the truth.

I want you back. Yes I do.
I met him just because I needed someone to listen to me after what happened.
You were so cruel never giving me any second chance.

I want you back. Yes I do.
That is why I told you the truth.

I want you back. Yes I do.

Truth is I love you.
Truth is even what had happened between us I still love you.
Truth is no matter what who how other people get involved trying to take away our relationship my feelings towards you will never ever change.
Truth is I miss you so much I wish you feel what I feel every single fucking day.
Truth is I wished that you have more feelings.
Truth is for me you are worth it.

It hurts when you said you read my blog and what you feel is. Nothing.
You tar covered heart ass hole dick head.
How could you.
How could you feel nothing and I feel so much?


And you said you loved me
And you said you loved me
And you said you loved me.

Truth is. I can't live without you in my life everything is just not the same anymore without you.

Everything is so lifeless so dull without you.

Please come back to me soon.

I miss you 杰

Disaster Day 7

Day 7.

I can't believe it's already one week.
One week of suffering.
One week of feeling worthless and helpless.
One week of non stop crying and trying to act strong.

This is killing every piece of my soul.
I can't function without thinking of you.
memories of us are everywhere.

I wonder did your tar covered heart ever think of us.
maybe for a split second, maybe just for a second you think we still can work it out.
maybe you just feel like killing me bit by bit everyday.

I can laugh and be happy go lucky at work. but when the night comes.
I can't control. I miss you.

Somehow. I don't know why there's a voice in my head telling me to stop fighting.
But my heart says no. Hang on. He's worth it.

I guess I'll give this war a timeline.
after that I really need to pack up and go.
I will stop fighting and leave you alone.
If that's what you really want.


I tried chatting  with other guys. But it don't feel the same at all.
none of them are as funny as you, none of them are as crazy as you. none of them know me as much as you do. None.
I feel disgusting.

Maybe I am not ready for anyone else but you.
Deep down i hope that you still have feelings for me.

Still both of us know, you will never ever find another girl that loves you as much as i do.

I love you 杰 

Disaster Day 6

Day 6

Sunday was. Sunday.
I miss our Sunday mornings.

Woke up early, read your text. You are still firm with you decision.

I guess, there's no more love for me.
God i wish you can feel what I am feeling everyday.

Not a day went by without me crying.
Not a day went by without missing you.
Not a day went by without thinking of you.
Not a day went by without the urge to turn back time.

I thought I was getting better.
Went out with friends.
Ate good food, had fun chilling.
Yet, your shadows are everywhere.

I miss you. There's nothing more that i want right now. I just want to hug you like we used to.

I promised to fight for this relationship.
Everyone around me thinks that i am making a fool of myself.
I don't care what people say anymore.

for me. You are worth it.

Went for a jog last night just to get things off my mind.
I thought exercising makes me feel better,
But no.
I came back crying so much that i vomited.
Is it because of my period that i am so emotional.

I don't know. all i know is. I want you back. I will prove and fight for this.
To be a better person.
Even it means nothing to you. You said you don't care.

They told me to stop blaming myself for what happened, i can't.
I can't.

I miss you 杰 

Disaster Day 5

Day 5.

Meeting was insane at work. I was so exhausted. Gosh.
Kept my mind busy not thinking about you for a while at least.

Then my best friend ask me out for karaok.
I sang my heart out cried like a bitch.
I miss you so much. So much.

Avoiding all the songs that we used to sang together.  Avoiding songs that reminds me of us. But. I still cried.

I miss you.

We met last night. Things we better. At least we are having a decent conversation. You were firm with you decision.
What did I do to you until I don't deserve to be given any chance to change at all.

What happened was just a minor mistake that I sware would change.
You want to be friends. Getting friend zoned by you. Again.

Any how I made up my mind. I'm going to prove to you I will change and I will fight for you and this relationship. I don't care what other people say anymore.  I just know that you are what I really want.

Yes. You are worth fighting for.


I love you 杰

Disaster Day 4

Day 4.

I wasn't really happy or sad when I woke up. I guess I was feeling numb again..

But I feel like I can start my laptop again. The pain wasn't that bad anymore.

I can joke around with friends and colleagues.

Then. You texted me.
Boy. You don't know how much I missed talking to you. You will never know how bad it feels not to belong with you :'(

Had fun conversations.
Why do I feel like we are never getting back?
For such small thing it isn't worth it.
I want to fight for us. But please see that I'm fighting.

I never wanted you to read my blog. I write to ease my soul.
I love you. I still do. A lot.
It's so hard for me to get to this stage.


I really wonder. Have you got yourself a replacement :(


I miss you 杰

Disaster Day 3

Day 3.

Woke up feeling fairly positive.
slept alone with locked door. Good start anyway :)

Proud of myself.
was doing so good for the 1st half of the day.

Things were crazy at work.

Until. You ass hole bbm me.
Not to patch things back, you tore my healing wounds apart again.
That stupid text.
I wasn't ready to meet you. I couldn't.
How can you be so cruel?

Your heart must be covered by tars from the cigarettes. So black and thick. Your eyes, feelings blinded.

I can't believe I am this weak and vulnerable. How can a simple text from you affected me in so many ways.
I cried, again.
But I sure am lucky enough to have supportive friends and family. :)
Thank you for being there when I abandon all of you when I was living in my fantasy fairy tale.

Went swimming with my sister, had fun, real fun. Though the garden reminded me so much of us. It was the place we 1st met.

Maybe you thought of leaving me long time ago. I do wonder, is this just an opportunity for you to leave me? My heart says, "No"
Until today I still trust you in ways that I don't even understand. Maybe I'm just stupid.
Even though I am always telling you that "I don't trust you" but the fact is, I do. I know you.
Deep down that tar covered heart. Behind that smile.

Didn't eat much yesterday but i was able to finish my lunch :)
another good start.
I am always amazed by the fact that how two different people from totally separate life can come together and love each other so deep. But why do you need to end it this way?
I prefer you to talk me out of this relationship.
This relationship of us need closure. I need closure. It was so good to us, we need to end with respect.
Maybe getting back isn't an option anymore.

-just move on-

Disaster Day 2

Day 2

I woke up with a smile.
Day 2 was better. I can feel myself healing.

I feel like I can take on the world.

Tried to focus on my work but still can't seem to eat.

Day 2 was so much better. The pain seems to be lesser.

Had fun with my sisters singing my heart out, avoiding songs that remind me of you.
listening to advice and learning so much.

I really tried to kick your shadow. everything about you out of my mind.

Need to do more soul searching.
I slept alone with the door open tho.

I guess that's improvement.
Working on getting a new car.

-inject me with essence of positive-

Disaster Day 1

Day 1 of the collapse of my support system.

the same day my car got stolen.

The break up was bad and dramatic.
It was so sudden. so fast too emotional.

I was numbed. I couldn't spend the night sleeping alone. I had to sleep with my sisters.
I seek shelter. I was shivering.
He thought that giving back all the things i gave him means erasing all our memories. but he was so wrong.

I couldn't eat. I feel nauseous, I can't stop crying.
The sun has fallen. My world crumble. half of my soul gone.
Deleting pictures and videos of you in my phone means nothing.
I still miss you the same.

The fear of starting my laptop. fearing that i would accidentally click on one of our vids.

I tried begging wanting him back.
I guess. His heart just can't take me back anymore.
I can't stop crying.

Everything around me is you.
All of me.
The music, the food the place. you scent.
I miss his hugs. his jokes his voice. I miss him so much no words can describe how sorry I am.

I just wanted him to give me one more chance to make it right again. Just this one last time.
I told him I have learnt my lesson.
He wouldn't listen.
He acting so cruel makes me think that, did he ever love me?
was it as much as i did?
I said to not give up. He pushed me away. pushed away everything that we built.

If we ever got back together again. i promise to make this relationship stronger.
I promise not to repeat the same mistakes.

I am lucky enough to have friends and family to support me, to love me.
but
You promised not the throw me away anymore, but you still did.

I guess karma bites like a bitch.
-good bye-